Tuesday, May 22, 2012

A suitable boy for Anandi

Dadisa
Anandi and the Collector
The Child Bride



Balika Vadhu

So what if he is a collector, Anandi is a sarpanch. Choti umar ki sarpanch bitiya.
The Dadisa, fondly  says to herself, after her son has admonished her for dreaming of every man she likes as a possible grand son in law.

That is the 1001st episode of Balika Vadhu, where the child bride Anandi, whose divorce from husband Jagiya, has come through. The  story is as much about the grand mother, who has transformed from a rigid and superstitious woman to a forward looking matriarch,  just as it is of  Anandi’s growth into an educated woman in the rural backdrop of Jaitsar villar, presumably imaginary, in Rajasthan. 


That is just the way many mothers –and grand mothers—looking high and low for a suitable match for their daughters behave in India. No boy is good enough. And their daughter, too good for most  of the  bachelors they see.

Anyone who has tried to match-make in the Indian context will doubtless empathise with Dadisa, and marvel at the lengths to goes to, to woo the Collector for her Anandi!


I  caught up with this  Colours channel’s  path breaking serial  when it was into it’s second year. I’ve missed many episodes in between, found some boring, and some less boring. But in all fairness, it has remained one of the good serials in our entertainment channels.  The bad are not worse than life throws up, and the good are not so sugary that they will give us diabetes!

Anandi's story could inspire girls in rural India .

The serial comes with a statement by way of a lesson at the end of each episode, and will serve to sensitise/educate many in the country—only if it is aired in one or two of the the free channels bouquet of DD plus, the dish and set top box  that does not involve a monthly payment, and comes with limited Door Darshan channels only.


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